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In this video, protagonists Thordis and Tom use their stories to try and make a difference in the fight against this sort of violence.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">While Thordis and Tom were in a relationship, aged 16 and 18 respectively, Tom sexually assaulted Thordis.\u202fThroughout their interwoven accounts of the event and the years that followed, we learn about their emotional journeys and questions. Moreover, this conference provides insights into the protective strategies they adopted during and after sexual assaults.\u202f&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Include Men in the Conversation<\/strong>&nbsp;<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">This story is accompanied by a plea for men to be more involved in conversations about sexual violence. From the accounts of both the person who perpetrated the sexual assault and the person who was sexually assaulted, we can see how important it is to recognize the human beings behind the \u201cvictim\u201d and \u201coffender\u201d labels. The subtleties also make us think about the importance of grasping the weight of the words we use to talk about these issues.\u202f&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">This talk was given as part of TEDWomen\u202f2016. 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